Tuesday, September 17, 2013

Solid Foods Lab, Hold the Blender

Tiger Cub is into solid foods now and it is a whole new world for us!  We're trying what is currently the most fashionable thing in baby feeding...Baby Led Weaning (BLW), also called Rapley Weaning for it's British founder.  Ms. Rapley has written several books, none of which I have read.

Caution...if you've never heard of this, you're going to think I'm drinking the crazy juice!  If, however, you have a 6-month-old, there's a good chance you know about it because it's the happening new thing in baby meals.

The gist is that the baby feeds himself.  You give the baby pieces of food that are large enough to grab and he is in charge from there.  And the parent just watches.  Which is freakin' hard to do!  Which is why I take lots of videos/pictures while I sit there.

And it looks like this...

 Always efficiency-minded, this apple is doubling as a teething toy.

But wait, that was a few weeks in.  It started much slower as you can see in the next video.  You might hear parental confusion in the background as we try to figure out what the heck we're doing.  When Randy puts the banana in Tiger Cub's mouth, that's a BLW no-no, but we didn't exactly go over the rules before the camera started rolling.



 Some Points on BLW:

  • You start no sooner than 6 months of age.  This is also when the AAP now recommends introducing babies to solid foods.  And about the time babies are ready to start finger foods anyway.  So you breastfeed or formula feed through 6 months and then jump immediately to finger foods, basically just skipping the traditional pureed food phase of 4 to 6 months of age.
  • The baby is in charge of eating.  He gets to explore new textures, tastes, and smells and makes his own food decisions.  No pretending the spoon is an airplane or other games to get baby to open his mouth.
A smorgasbord of breakfast opportunity.

As soon as I heard about BLW, I was interested for admittedly selfish reasons.  I really didn’t see myself making purees.  Heck, I don’t even own  a food processor!  With BLW I would not have to make baby food or buy baby food.  Win win!

Any health claims I've read about (that this method reduces the risk of childhood obesity or babies become less picky eaters) have failed to impress me.  The research seems pretty scant so there's just not much to back it up.  I would not do it based on those reasons alone.

  Eating an apple while wearing asparagus as a mustache.

But we've been doing it for 4 weeks and here's what I do like about BLW from our experience:

It's fun watching Tiger Cub explore new foods and figure out how to feed himself.  Basically another form of playtime.  I think it's great for his motor skills and coordination.  We went to a restaurant recently and ate pizza while Tiger Cub chowed down on his apple and rice cake.  Neither of us had to spoon feed a puree.  Practically a family meal!

What I don't like is there are times he doesn't seem to eat much at all.  This is when I think, "Hey I just steamed those vegetables; can you put them in your mouth instead of dropping them on the floor?!"  I know that something is going down his throat because of evidence at the...ahem...other end.  It is oddly satisfying when baby does find his mouth and crams something in there.

Rice cake over produce any day.

What he likes:  Green veggies (asparagus and broccoli have built-in handles!), steamed fruit slices, yogurt, and especially rice cake.  He likes rice cake so much that I've been smearing other stuff on top (applesauce, mushed carrots, black beans) so he'll eat that too!  Is it cheating?  Maybe.  Is "cheating" even possible when feeding your baby?

What he doesn't like:  Orange veggies like carrot and sweet potato (surprisingly!).  And he's lukewarm on the white stuff like banana and potatoes.

He might not touch carrots, but he will go to town on some broccoli.

I guess time will tell whether the concept sticks around or goes the way of the grapefruit diet.  For now, it seems to be working okay so we will continue to make baby food without the help of a blender.  Keeping our kitchen puree-free since 2013!

For the record, this might be the first time I've ever ridden the wave of a trend.  I was horribly behind with rolled up jeans in elementary school, missed the memo on swoopy bangs, and didn't own a smart phone until 2010.  Mommy-hood just makes me cool like that.


Monday, September 9, 2013

Summer Lovin' Part II

Nearing the end of summer is always painful for me.  I'm not too sad yet because I have a very liberal definition of summer (May 1 - Sept 30) and there is still a beach vacation to look forward to in two weeks!  We have many good memories of the past few months (see Summer Lovin' Part I) and a bazillion pictures to document it.

Here are some highlights from summer's second half:

We watched the sea lion feeding at the Central Park Zoo from afar.  Tiger Cub was too tired for us to cough up $24 to actually enter the zoo but maybe next time.


We enjoyed a picnic lunch followed by a family nap in Central Park.


Tiger Cub bathed in the kitchen sink too many times to count. 


We took our baby to the Metropolitan Museum of Art.  Because why not?  It's the finest cultural enrichment available without boarding a plane. 


Our friends came over and we put all of our cubs on the couch for a group shot.


We had a successful family date night at our favorite local pizza restaurant where we ate pizza with a side of rice cake...


...and a side of table.   (And building our immune systems in the process.)


Yes, we're into solid foods now.  More on this great adventure in the next post!

Wednesday, August 21, 2013

And just like that, we have a 6-month-old.

Halfway through our first year.  Somebody pinch me!







Sunday, August 11, 2013

Wedding Bells in South Georgia

Last weekend we traveled south for Randy's brother's wedding.  Congratulations Ryan and Megan.  Your wedding was beautiful!  This grainy cell phone picture hardly does it justice.  Love the ferns and all the greenery!


During the ceremony, we exiled ourselves to the balcony to keep Tiger Cub's unpredictable vocal cords a safe distance away from the action.  He didn't make a peep...


...no really, he was super excited about his uncle's wedding.  There's nothing wrong with saving your energy for the after party.


When Tiger Cub and his cousin get together, we are continually entertained by "little people doing funny things."

 Brothers and their babes.


Not sure what's going on here but I'd say TC is doing something right.


  "I like your hair!" "I like your dress!"

Aside from the wedding festivities, Tiger Cub went in a pool for the first time! Day one of swim training was met with skepticism but day two with smiles.  Maybe the floaty thing made all the difference.

My, this bathtub is big!
 
Ok, ready for our beach vacation!




Sunday, July 28, 2013

5 Months Already? Unbelievable!

In honor of 5 Months, here are some of Tiger Cub's favorite things.

Toys!  The more colorful, loud, and reflective, the better.  Mirrors are a favorite.


Mornings.  Even though the wake-up call sometimes comes earlier than I would prefer, I can't complain about starting every day with this smile.  And on the positive side, I get so much done in the mornings now.  Grocery shopping at 7:30 am is the best.


Geography.  We couldn't resist this educational gem of a rug for Tiger Cub's new room.  Shortly after this photo was taken, he spit up on Asia.


Dressing up like African animals.



Milk.  Although on a flight to Denver it looked like he could go for Coke too.  That's my boy!  Atlanta roots!


And at 5 months, Tiger Cub is weighing in at 17 lbs.  No wonder my arms get so tired!

Sunday, July 21, 2013

A Colorado Wedding

Last weekend we went to Denver, Colorado for the wedding of my cousin Lindsay and her now-husband Chris.  It was a fine mix of seeing family, eating well, and partying hard at all the wedding festivities.

The outdoor ceremony, which we will all remember as "the most perfectly-timed ceremony ever," was at the beautiful Red Rocks Ampitheatre outside of Denver.  It was sprinkling when we arrived, the sun came out just in time for the ceremony, and afterward it rained hard.  The kind of downpour that causes flash flood alarms to go off on your cell phone and makes everyone breathe a sigh of relief that the wedding was at four instead of five.  Luckily by that time most of us were safely inside our cars!

Father and Mother walking you down the aisle = great idea!
 


The pleasant breeze made for some fun veil action.

Like the rest of us, Tiger Cub was wary of the approaching storm clouds.


We squeezed in a nice family photo.  Only the Colorado constituency is missing but I think the real photographer got one of ALL of us.

 Photo credit:  Stacy the Bridesmaid

We spent a ridiculous amount of effort trying to get two grandparents and a baby to all look in the same direction. 

 Major thanks to them for all the baby holding, watching, and even bathing.

Followed by two parents and a baby...

 
And this was the beginning of the end.  Tiger Cub called it quits for the night about 15 minutes into cocktail hour.  He's saving his dance moves for another time.


Thursday, July 11, 2013

Summer Lovin' Part I

It's been a nice summer so far.  Full of stifling hot and humid days and fun times with friends just like an east coast summer should be.  Here is some of the good stuff we've been up to.  I don't have any plans for a "Part II" but the season is young!

Tiger Cub was really excited to go on his first (non-subway) train ride.



We visited some friends (who have a backyard!) and Tiger Cub got to play water toys with his buddy "Long Island Cub."
 
 

He's now rolling over so this is what he usually looks like at nap retrieval.


We spent at least one warm evening taking in NYC sights.


And in non-baby news, a Moe's opened up on Third Avenue.  It's not as good as every Moe's in our (and Moe's) home state of Georgia but at least it's a step in the right direction.